Speed Dating 101: What to Wear, What to Expect & Fun Facts to Know!

Nervous about your first speed dating event? You're not alone. The idea of meeting multiple people in one evening can be exciting and a little nerve-wracking — especially when you’re unsure what to expect.

Good news: we’ve got your back with a handy Speed Dating 101 guide to help you walk in with confidence and maybe walk out with a few great connections (or even a second date!).

What to Wear

Yes, looks aren’t everything… but first impressions do matter. Let’s dress the part!

Ladies

You’ll be seated the entire event, so go ahead and wear those heels you've been dying to show off. A dress or outfit that makes you feel like your best self? Absolutely. Choose something that reflects your personality — think classy, confident, and comfortable.

Gentlemen

Iron those shirts, style that hair, and wear comfortable yet stylish shoes. This is not the time for your gym trainers or that old hoodie from uni. Dress like you're going on a nice evening date — clean, polished, and effortlessly cool.

Style Tip: Not too formal, not too casual — aim for the sweet spot in between. Let your outfit say, “I care, but I’m also chill.”

What to Expect at the Event

This event is happening — rain, shine, or butterflies in your stomach. Let’s walk you through what the evening will look like:

1. Sign In and Get Settled

• You'll be welcomed by our friendly hosts (yes, they’re lovely and yes, they’ll help you feel at ease!)

• Receive your name tag, drink token (redeem it at the bar!), and a welcome pack with your scorecard sheet.

• The scorecard will be your memory aid — with columns for YES / NO / NOTES.

Fun Fact: Studies show we only remember 10% of conversations after a few hours. Your scorecard is your best friend tonight!

2. Warm-Up Mingling

Before the official rounds begin, take a moment to chat casually.

• Ladies, connect with the women near you — support and sisterhood always wins.

• Gentlemen, talk to the guy next to you. He’s not your rival; he's your wingman for the night.

Remember our theme: Meet. Mingle. Connect.

3. Speed Dating Begins!

Here’s how it flows:

• Ladies stay seated

• Gentlemen rotate from table to table

• You’ll have 5–7 minutes with each date

• A bell will signal the start and end of each round

After each mini-date:

• Take 30 seconds to mark your scorecard

• Write something specific and positive to jog your memory later (e.g., “loves dogs,” “great smile,” “funny!”)

• Before submitting your sheet at the end, snap a photo of it — trust us, you'll want the notes!

Fun Fact: Most people know within 90 seconds if they feel a spark. So trust your gut — and take notes!

4. Post-Event Vibes

You’re welcome to stick around after the rounds — grab another drink, chat with someone you liked, or just unwind. Sometimes the best conversations happen once the timer stops.

5. The Follow-Up

Within 48 hours, you’ll receive an email from us with your matches (if any). Didn’t hear from us? Shoot us a message, we’ve got you!

❤️ What If I Don’t Get a Match?

Let’s talk real talk:

• 25% of attendees won’t get a match — and that’s completely normal!

• 50% of attendees get 1–2 matches

• If you get 2 or more, you're in the top group — go you!

If you don’t walk away with a match, don’t walk away discouraged. Every event is different, and every new person brings new possibilities.

Pro Tip: If you get a match — go on that second date! Give it a shot. Real connection can surprise you when you least expect it.

Fun Fact: Over 70% of people say they become more attracted to someone after a great conversation, even if the initial spark wasn’t instant.

Final Words of Wisdom

• Be yourself — you’re already awesome.

• Come with an open mind.

• Smile, listen, and enjoy the moment.

• And most importantly, have fun!

  
  

Speed dating is more than just dating — it’s a space to practice connection, meet new people, and maybe even find someone who “gets you.”

See you at the event — let’s Meet, Mingle & Connect!